Thursday, October 29, 2009

example .# 1. when you get the number...



ok so this was an actual question from a girlfriend of mine.........
also ..... a threatening text is ........ hey ..... i havent heard from you since i gave you my number ..... is it ok ?..... what are you up to ?.. what are your plans tonight ?... ......... stop being clingy holy hell balls............ you finally get their number ......... dont screw it up ....... this is an instance where the girl was smart ...............



Today
12:12pm(GIRL)

question

12:13pmJared

answer

12:14pmJared

?

12:16pm(GIRL)

if a guy starts up a conversation with a girl

and acts very interested

and at the end of the conversation they exchange phone numbers

with the intention to hang out somtime

does he want her to text him first

or does he want her to wait for him to text her?

12:19pmJared

was the last hing he said was yeah text me sometime ........ or did he say..... ok ........so i'll keep you posted ....?

12:19pm(GIRL)

he didn't really say either...

well we were talkign about concerts and he's like hey next time you're going let me know

and gave me his number

/asked for mine

but the way the rest of the conversation went he was like "yeah we need to go there/do that sometime.."

if that makes sense

12:20pmJared

yeah ok .......... did he leave your presence with a hug ........ or a high five?

or ......... a flick of the rist .. kinda wave?

12:24pm(GIRL)

hahahahaha

oh jared

you are such a girl at heart

not really anything

his sister was in my ward in logan and he lives in salt lake right now

that's how i ran into him

i'll probably just wait for him

guys don't like girls who are in their face

they like a decent chase

12:26pmJared

well explain how the end was .. cause it will tell you ........ if he is waiting or if he is ready

...... and you cant really say that ....... all guys are different

12:28pm(GIRL)

it's okay. it was nothign special. i'll give it till next week and then maybe send him a text

yeah...but in general all human beings like a little bit of a chase

there's a thrill in wanting what you can't have...then kinda having it but not 100%...then eventually getting it and knowing you worked for it

12:30pmJared

well .... you ask for my advise but dont want it ........... hahhah ok kiddo

12:30pm(GIRL)

it's not that i don't want it

it's just that it's confusing me

i always like your advice

12:31pmJared

hahha so how was the parting of the convo ..... how did it end

12:31pm(GIRL)

and i don't like when you call me kiddo

12:31pmJared

?

12:31pm(GIRL)

just kinda like...see ya...

12:31pmJared

hahhah i know i wanted a reaction

12:31pm(GIRL)

i don't

know

haha a reaction

i'll just make my "uh...annoying" face and roll my eyes

i'm sure you know what i'm talign about

ahh...i need to get ready for work

i'm in a halloween costume right now

12:32pmJared

hahahah got it ....... ok ........ well if it was a see ya

12:32pm(GIRL)

then?

12:32pmJared

then .........

12:32pm(GIRL)

he's kinda shy

12:32pmJared

yep

you nailed it

send him

a

non threatening

text like hey this is (GIRL)

whats up keep me posted on the concerts ;);)

and any other time you wanna chill

....... then wait

12:34pm(GIRL)

that's kinda a boring thing to say

i hate when people text me awkward keeping in touch texts

i love the weird ones like "dude i just say someone in an eyeball costume"

by the way i did

she was 5 and it was sooooo cool.

12:36pmJared

there you go .... thats more your style so ........ do it

the point is non threatening

12:39pm(GIRL)

what is threatening?

text me

i'm leaving for work

12:39pmJared

:):)

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